Will I Get Her Back?

Friend, I remember the break up pain like it was yesterday, and it’s been over 2 years. I remember the question “How can I get my ex to want me back?” running through my mind a thousand times a day. Let me tell you how I overcame it, and got her back too! I am going to offer you an approach I don’t hear much about - but it’s very powerful

First off, the question of “How can I get my ex to want me back” is a natural one if you have been apart for very long. If you’ve tried endless “tricks” to get her back that haven’t worked. don’t let it get you down too much, there is hope.

To get your ex back, you simply need a proven strategy, a strategy that has well defined “tactics” (not tricks). Much like a general planning a battle plan, you need a solid battle plan.

Your first tactic is going to be - Give her space!

In an ideal world where you were a real “Johnny-on-the-spot” when she first brought up leaving you would have said something like “Yeah, I agree. Actually it’s funny you brought it up, because I had been thinking the same thing lately. Things haven’t been the greatest and we could both use some time apart right now”.

This is an awesome tactic that does two things.

Initially, she is caught off guard. All the power she thought she had, is gone. In her mind she held all the power in the break up, because she is assuming you will freak, she figures you will beg, plead say anything to make her change her mind. She feels she can snap her fingers at any moment down the road if the grass really isn’t greener, and you’ll come running back. You have taken that all away!

And furthermore, this response gets her wondering what the hell YOU were unhappy about, it gets her wondering what was wrong with her.

Do you see how powerful this is? She is not thinking about YOU. This giving her space, quiet space without you in her face allows her to miss you!

Yeah - So that’s NOT how you handled it? Yeah, neither did I my friend! It’s not a very realistic scenario because you were probably blind-sided by it, like I was.

Have you made a ton of mistakes since the break up?

You feel it’s beyond hope now? You find yourself asking, “How can I get my ex to want me back?” - especially with all the mistakes you have made? Hang in there… I made all the same mistakes you have most likely made, but it’s not over yet.

Now it’s time share the Good News - you can still accomplish the very same thing, even if you made most of the mistakes in the book. Like I did.

How?

Simply by giving her that space now! Yes, I know it’s going to be hard but as of right now you stop all contact. And by stop all contact, I mean just that. You disappear from her life, you don’t call, you don’t leave messages, no texts, no nothing!

An extremely powerful way to initiate this no-contact is a really old-school method. You sit your butt down and you send her a HANDWRITTEN letter! That’s right, take the time to write her a hand written letter, and snail-mail it to her!

It works even better if you have made some mistakes along the way. If you handled this break up anything like I did you have hounded her with calls, messages, e-mails, or basically abused her space in any way, this handwritten letter is the best way to quietly say “I’ve came to my senses and agree this break up is the right decision“.

But be careful, in needs to done correctly and worded in the right way. What you are doing is taking that “weak” and “needy” vibe you’ve been giving off and replacing it with a more confident, take charge attitude. Follow my full FAQ's at Get My Girl Back Now

Are you starting to see how this can be just as powerful as the “Johnny-on-the-spot” response we talked about earlier. It creates that very same effect - And if needed, this hand written letter can serve as the perfect platform for an apology.

You look stronger and more in control of yourself now, something is an instant turn on for most women. It also creates that atmosphere where she is wondering what the hell happened? It allows her to think about you and the relationship in a relaxed, non-harassed manner. It lets her miss you - That is power behind this approach. She is now thinking of YOU and no longer is taking your love for granted, and assuming you will always be there waiting for her.

You have taken, at least, some of the power back.

And is shows her just how special she is by taking the time to actually sit down and write out a letter. Is shows her you put some thought into this. It shows her some personal initiative.

In summary if you find yourself asking over and over again, “How can I get my ex to want me back?” you owe it to yourself, and to your relationship to check out a handwritten letter. It’s old-school but very, very effective if done correctly.